Interrelativity

Tag: relationships

  • Marriage, Romantic Realism and Relationship without Attachment

    I've been a hopeless romantic for most of my life, but I am becoming increasingly disillusioned about love. I don't see disillusionment as a negative thing, but as a positive process: letting go of illusions, and thus becoming less romantic – and more realistic – about relationships … especially long-term committed relationships … especially the…

  • External Validation and Emotional Responsibility

    Years ago, I discovered Validation, a wonderful short film by Kurt Kuenne about a parking garage attendant who validates tickets … and validates the people who bring their tickets to the window, offering compliments to each person as he stamps their ticket "Validated". He goes on to offer validation far and wide beyond the parking…